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Hi, my name is Greg.

I'm going to assume you're a real woman who is here because you are honestly looking for a good man. I'm here for the same reason you are-- to meet the right match for a long term partner in life.

What does it take to be a "right match"?

You don't have to be perfect-- God knows I'm not. I don't expect you to believe everything I believe, or have all the same interests. On the contrary, sharing time with someone who has different interests can make life more interesting.

Most important, I think, is we share the same basic world view.

If we are a good match, we will always expect the best, while preparing for the worst. You'll trust I'm going to have your back, no matter what happens, as I'll know you have mine. While most people go through life feeling entitled to things they don't need and will never have, we will share a deep and abiding gratitude for everything in our lives. We respect private property, love freedom, and despise tyrants.

We understand that any relationship must be good for both, or it will fail. As we come to love each other we will each do for the other, as we realize their happiness is tied to our own. I will not be abusive, either physically or mentally, nor will I put up with any of that from you.

I'm not a model, and I don't expect you to be one; I have a comfortable "dad bod". To me, that means my health is important to me; I eat good foods, and keep myself in reasonably good shape. If this is you too, we're on the same page.

I live out in the country, in middle Tennessee, and I like it. Most of my work is done online, and I rarely have to leave home unless I choose. I can find plenty to keep myself occupied, without running into town every day.

All my children are grown; they live nearby and I see them often. They were all homeschooled and turned into fine adults. If you're still raising kids, I can't honestly say if I'm open to that, until I've met you, and them. What I CAN say is I won't lead you on, or BS you about my intentions.

I like to read and keep abreast of current events. I like music. I enjoy movies, if they have a plot. I love humor, especially off-color jokes; I am NOT politically correct. I like community theater-- I've acted in many stageplays and directed a few. I enjoy a couple beers in the hot tub before bed, but I don't drink to excess.

I have a second place in Michigan where I like to spend summers on my pontoon boat, riding trails, and having bonfires with friends. It will be awesome if you're able to go with me.

Since I've assumed you're real, and have good intentions, I'll now expect you to step up and show me that's true. Let's chat a bit, and then share a video call so we can get a feel for each other. I use a private service for video calls, that will keep us both anonymous. If that works out we'll meet in person fairly soon. I will exchange private contact information with you, but only after we've met face to face.