hi im john from toms river Nj, i am a very simple uncomplicated white male of German & french origin, who wears my heart on my sleeve,and who respects and values women. i am looking for a woman who like myself wants honesty, communication , whos not afraid of commitment , who can love unconditionally , who is affectionate , & who craves & desires true intimacy for friendship that if there is a connection of 2 hearts becoming as 1 , may lead to a affair. a life long affair og the heart ,mind ,body ,and the soul. there is nothing greater than to love ,and to be loved!! like the song says (i am looking for that real love)