Serious Dating and Lasting Relationships
Learn how to recognize a sincere partner and build a strong relationship based on trust, compatibility, and shared values. Our advice will help you find true, lasting love.
Because every journey is unique, explore our dedicated advice for single parents, divorced or widowed singles, and those who are naturally shy. Our guides help you turn your personal situation into a strength, rebuild confidence, and navigate dating at your own pace. No matter where you come from, you can open the door to a meaningful and fulfilling love story.
Each life situation brings challenges, but also unique strengths when it comes to dating. In this category, we guide you through how your personal story — whether you’re a single parent, recently divorced, widowed, or naturally shy — can become an advantage rather than an obstacle. Our articles offer supportive, realistic advice to help you move forward at your own pace, overcome emotional barriers, and open yourself to new connections. Learn how your life experience can evolve into a source of confidence, resilience, and meaningful relationships.
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October 10, 2025
Dating a Woman with Kids - 10 Things to Know When Dating a Single Mom
To many men, the prospect of dating a woman with kids can be daunting. Starting a new relationship is enough for anyone to feel at least a bit nervous. Thus, when you add kids – and often an ex boyfriend or husband – the perspective becomes even more intimidating. Yet, with all the potential partners yo...Lire la suite
November 27, 2023
How to Be a Cool Guy – Tips for a Better, Cooler, and Happier Life!
Most men around the world will have a few things in common. Young boys in school try to learn about fitting in with their peers. Teenagers wonder about growing their first beard. Adults in their twenties are curious about having a good career… and so on and so forth. But there is one thing ...Lire la suite
November 27, 2023
What It Means If a Girl Tells You About Her Personal Life
Imagine if you had to draw up a general list of signs a girl is interested in you. Off the top of your head, you could probably write down quite a few. Like when a girl keeps texting you, or if she seems to take every opportunity to talk to you. You know, of course, that it also depends on the top...Lire la suite
January 20, 2022
10 Signs Your Ex Is Trying to Make You Jealous and How You Can React
Ah, relationships! Like them or not, they often make us go through all sorts of emotions. Sometimes we are not even in control of them. Where you used to be a completely rational and even-keeled individual, you now become a bit of a mess. So to speak. Emotions can sometimes prevail over your more logical ...Lire la suite
August 17, 2021
If a Girl Gets Jealous, Does She Like You? Here’s How to Find Out
For all the similarities between men and women, there are still some major differences. And nowhere is this more appearant than in the way both genders approach interpersonal relationships and dating. Women being, on average, more agreeable than men, they could tend to act friendly around some guys even if they ha...Lire la suite
June 8, 2021
How to Attract Girls in College – Advice for Young Men
College is often a time of great changes for younger guys. As you progressively gain more independence, you get to make choices on your own, like what classes to attend. You also learn new skills. That includes expanding your knowledge with classes and lectures, of course. But also, learning new social sk...Lire la suite
May 13, 2021
How to Attract and Date Younger Women – Is It Worth It?
For many men, picking up younger women on dating sites or in real life is not only a matter of personal preference. Sometimes you live in a small town and there is just too small a pool of single women to date. Also, there is the fact that as you get older, people around you get into long-term relationshi...Lire la suite
February 23, 2021
How to Date a Tall Girl? 10 Things You Should Know!
Tall girls stand out. Literally. Of all the qualities you could notice in a girl, her height is one of the most obvious. While it might be common knowledge that some women find tall guys attractive, men do not seem to have the same affinity towards dating taller women. You’ll occasionally hear about a guy da...Lire la suite
February 13, 2021
8 Signs Your Ex-Girlfriend Is Not Over You and What to Do About It
Break-ups are tough. They are, at the very least, a big change, and at the worst, an exhausting experience. And what’s more is that the decision to separate is often not reciprocal. All said and done; however, separations are not always irreversible. Sometimes, under the right conditions, you can get back wi...Lire la suite
December 4, 2020
Girl Won't Talk to Me! What Can I Do?
Why won’t she talk to me? Like most guys, you’ve probably asked yourself this very question at some point. Whether your ex won’t talk to you or a girl you like is ignoring you, this is never pleasant. Your instincts might tell you to get in touch with her, to keep channels of communication...Lire la suite
October 22, 2020
Why Am I So Alone? I Feel So Lonely!
Despite an evermore connected world, more people than ever wake up one day and wonder: why do I feel so alone? Maybe you are one of them. Loneliness is so prevalent these days that it would hardly be surprising if you felt that way. Yet, our human desire to connect and form bonds with our peers is just as strong as it ha...Lire la suite
August 31, 2020
How Long Can a Crush Last? How to Successfully Get Over It.
A crush is the darndest thing. One minute you are doing your own thing and the next you find yourself daydreaming about someone. What is it about them that you like so much? Maybe it’s the way they dress. Or how they smile when they see you. Whatever it is, they can do no wrong and you soon find yourself thinking abo...Lire la suite
June 4, 2020
How to Build More Meaningful Relationships and Make New Friends
You may have noticed that the older we grow, the fewer friends we seem to have around us. In a way, this is perfectly normal. We have less time to make new friends, less patience for flakey or insincere relationships, and we are more private. But it also means that we can have a harder time meeting people and buil...Lire la suite
May 21, 2020
When and How to Introduce Your New Partner to Your Kids
Dating as a single parent comes with share of challenges. From a general lack of time to feelings of guilt about dating again, it can be a tad overwhelming. But if things are going well, one question will inevitably pop up: how do you introduce your new partner to your kids? If you found someone great, you might b...Lire la suite
April 28, 2020
Virtual Dating in Social Distancing Times – Is it Worth the Wait?
Just last month, we started hearing of whole countries going on lockdown and entire cities recommending self-isolation measures. Since then, it has become clear that our lives were going to change in major ways. Activities based on human interaction have gone through massive changes. Romance being no exception, our courts...Lire la suite
January 24, 2020
New Year Dating Resolutions for Better Relationships in 2020
Set Clear Goals for Yourself Sure, you won’t always reach your goals. But if you aim for nothing, that won’t get you any closer to achieving something meaningful either. Whether your new year dating resolution is to meet new people, find someone to date during the holidays, or even get...Lire la suite
November 14, 2019
Bad First Date? Here's the Best Way To Cut It Short
Much like exploring a new destination, a first date is about discovery. You’re getting to know someone in real life for the first time. There is a part of unknown. And with every unknown comes uncertainty. Sometimes you’re pleasantly surprised. Your date can be great fun and you’ll be looking forward to ...Lire la suite
October 23, 2019
Long-Distance Relationships – 6 Tips to Make Them Work
Being in a long-distance relationship is no joke. Ask anyone who’s ever been in one. In fact, almost half of long-distance relationships end in a break-up. That’s akin to the toss of a coin. But that also means that the other half of couples stays together. And that’s pretty good consider...Lire la suite
October 16, 2019
Dating as a single parent - Pitfalls and traps you should avoid.
Being a single parent means certain parts of life can prove a little trickier to navigate. Take dating, for example. While it used to be a two-person affair, it now involves more people. Kids, first and foremost. Not only yours, but the ones your romantic interest might bring into the picture as well. Your previous partne...Lire la suite
August 6, 2019
How To Deal With Rejection In Online Dating – Tips To Move Forward
Signing up to a dating site like Vidamora is exciting. Tons of interesting people are online, some of them eager to talk to you. There’s even this one profile you really like. The two of you have common interests. You like the same movies. Heck, you even frequent the same restaurants. They’re cute too. The co...Lire la suite
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November 27, 2023
What It Means If a Girl Tells You About Her Personal Life
Imagine if you had to draw up a general list of signs a girl is interested in you. Off the top of your head, you could probably write down quite a few. Like when a girl keeps texting you, or if she seems to take every opportunity to talk to you. You know, of course, that it also depends on the top...Lire la suite
August 17, 2021
If a Girl Gets Jealous, Does She Like You? Here’s How to Find Out
For all the similarities between men and women, there are still some major differences. And nowhere is this more appearant than in the way both genders approach interpersonal relationships and dating. Women being, on average, more agreeable than men, they could tend to act friendly around some guys even if they ha...Lire la suite
August 6, 2019
How To Deal With Rejection In Online Dating – Tips To Move Forward
Signing up to a dating site like Vidamora is exciting. Tons of interesting people are online, some of them eager to talk to you. There’s even this one profile you really like. The two of you have common interests. You like the same movies. Heck, you even frequent the same restaurants. They’re cute too. The co...Lire la suite
October 16, 2019
Dating as a single parent - Pitfalls and traps you should avoid.
Being a single parent means certain parts of life can prove a little trickier to navigate. Take dating, for example. While it used to be a two-person affair, it now involves more people. Kids, first and foremost. Not only yours, but the ones your romantic interest might bring into the picture as well. Your previous partne...Lire la suite
August 31, 2020
How Long Can a Crush Last? How to Successfully Get Over It.
A crush is the darndest thing. One minute you are doing your own thing and the next you find yourself daydreaming about someone. What is it about them that you like so much? Maybe it’s the way they dress. Or how they smile when they see you. Whatever it is, they can do no wrong and you soon find yourself thinking abo...Lire la suite
November 14, 2019
Bad First Date? Here's the Best Way To Cut It Short
Much like exploring a new destination, a first date is about discovery. You’re getting to know someone in real life for the first time. There is a part of unknown. And with every unknown comes uncertainty. Sometimes you’re pleasantly surprised. Your date can be great fun and you’ll be looking forward to ...Lire la suite
December 4, 2020
Girl Won't Talk to Me! What Can I Do?
Why won’t she talk to me? Like most guys, you’ve probably asked yourself this very question at some point. Whether your ex won’t talk to you or a girl you like is ignoring you, this is never pleasant. Your instincts might tell you to get in touch with her, to keep channels of communication...Lire la suite
October 23, 2019
Long-Distance Relationships – 6 Tips to Make Them Work
Being in a long-distance relationship is no joke. Ask anyone who’s ever been in one. In fact, almost half of long-distance relationships end in a break-up. That’s akin to the toss of a coin. But that also means that the other half of couples stays together. And that’s pretty good consider...Lire la suite
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Ser padre o madre soltera puede complicar un poco las citas, pero no las hace imposibles. Lo primero es darte permiso para dedicarte tiempo a ti mismo. Participa en actividades compatibles con tu vida familiar: eventos comunitarios, grupos de padres o actividades para niños. Las plataformas de citas también permiten explicar tu situación de forma clara.
Sé sincero desde el principio: así atraerás a personas dispuestas a aceptar y valorar tu realidad. No te sientas culpable por buscar amor: un padre feliz crea un hogar más equilibrado. El amor puede encajar perfectamente en tu vida familiar cuando decides abrirle espacio.
Después de un divorcio, es normal tener miedo de volver a sufrir. El primer paso es reconstruirte: cuida tu bienestar, retoma tus pasiones y permite que el tiempo sane las heridas.
Cuando te sientas preparado, avanza poco a poco. Fija tus límites, reconoce lo que buscas ahora en una relación y escucha tus emociones. Muchas personas encuentran amores aún más significativos después de un divorcio, porque afrontan las relaciones con más claridad.
El nuevo amor puede ser más profundo, consciente y hermoso.
La timidez no es un obstáculo para el amor; es solo una forma distinta de relacionarse. Elige ambientes donde te sientas cómodo: actividades tranquilas, grupos pequeños o conversaciones en línea.
Las citas en línea pueden ser muy útiles, porque te permiten abrirte poco a poco. Sé sincero sobre quién eres: las personas adecuadas valorarán tu sensibilidad.
Avanza lentamente y recuerda que la timidez puede hacer que las relaciones sean más auténticas y profundas.
Una carrera exigente puede dejar poco tiempo libre, pero aún así es posible crear conexiones significativas. Define primero qué tipo de relación buscas para no invertir energía en lo que no te conviene.
Usa plataformas que faciliten conversaciones claras y sinceras. Incluso encuentros breves pueden ser valiosos si hay compatibilidad.
La persona adecuada entenderá tu ritmo. El amor puede integrarse fácilmente en una vida ocupada cuando se prioriza la calidad y no la cantidad.
Mudarse a una nueva ciudad puede ser desafiante, pero también es una gran oportunidad para conocer gente. Explora lugares sociales: cafés, parques, eventos o clubes. Únete a actividades que realmente te gusten para conectar con personas afines.
Las aplicaciones de citas son muy útiles para ampliar tu círculo social rápidamente. Una nueva ciudad es una nueva etapa donde puedes construir nuevas historias y conexiones.
Creer en el amor después de un pasado difícil requiere valentía, pero también es un acto de sanación. Acepta tu historia sin culpa, aprende de ella y reconoce lo que deseas para tu futuro.
El pasado no define tu destino: te prepara para amar de una manera más sana. Avanza poco a poco y permite que la confianza vuelva con el tiempo. El amor aparece muchas veces cuando menos lo esperamos.
Creer en el amor significa confiar en tu capacidad de sanar y volver a abrirte.
